By: Jill Pertler

I don’t know if this column will ever be published. Or better put, if I’ll have the nerve to publish it.

It’s about divorce and I have no experience in that arena. I never divorced. In fact, I had a beautiful and wonderful marriage. My parents never divorced. No one in my immediate family has (so far) divorced.

So basically, I have no experience speaking on this subject.

Still I had a bit of a eureka about it today. And when I have a eureka, I often feel compelled to share.

So share I will.

I am a widow. Sometimes people I know have compared a divorce to being a widow...